Sheer to See Through

Full disclosure, I was not aware of  how see through this top was until I reviewed the pictures. And I’ve had it for years! Even my husband/photog didn’t think it was quite this sheer until he looked at the pics on my computer. Keep in mind all this is after I spent an hour on the side of the Freeway waiting to see the firefighters’ procession.

I thought this would be a good topic to explore here on the blog. Here’s a great illustration of the sheer/not so sheer look, depending on lighting:

Have you ever had that happen? It’s actually pretty common. Full daylight can make things look a lot different than indoor lighting. Additionally, cameras – especially when you use a flash – can sometimes cause one to look overexposed. There are many articles online that show sheer blouse mishaps. Google it, the pics are great hehe.

This really made me think. Would I choose to wear the same outfit again, knowing that it was basically see through? It seems like a simple question, but it brings up a lot of variables: confidence, social standards, etc. To my  surprise, I realized that I would wear it again. I guess I’m getting ballsier in my old age 😉

Of course I initially thought, “but I don’t have a model’s body” and all those other things that run through one’s mind. But I like the outfit, Leo liked the outfit, and I felt good in it so…as long as the sun is down or going down I’d do a repeat.

This outfit is so “covered up” that I felt it worked overall, but generally speaking full daylight is not the time to go super sheer. And of course it goes without saying that this is NOT office appropriate. If one does wear something sheer I also think it’s important to limit it to one item per outfit and avoid wearing a lacy/patterned bra to keep it from being overly sexy. Unless you’re in Vegas of course!

I’d love to hear if you agree or your counter argument in the comments.

Unfortunately this top is too old to find online, but I found this sheer bodysuit and I am obsessed! I already put it in my cart for later. And this is an adorable short sleeved option, while this is a super cute plus size option. If you’re thinking you need a base layer I highly recommend this cami, it’s a steal. If you have room in your budget, Cami NYC is universally recognized as being “the” place to buy quality camisoles.

You can still grab these (waterproof!!) OTK boots here. They are amazing! Not only are they stretchy, so they fit a wide array of ladies, but they also stay up and are crazy comfortable. I was stoked I had room to layer them over my fav, fully opaque Zella leggings (currently 25% of!). Buy these, you won’t regret it! I might just get a backup pair while they’re on sale…

You can still find this bag a few places online, even though I bought it over a year ago. It is amazing! I am still in love with the classic look, braided details, and the fact that it still looks brand new.

My necklace is no longer available, but this one is very similar and here’s a whole page of layered necklaces at a realistic price point. I want this one, but I’m trying very hard to resist. Layered necklaces is a trend I can for sure get behind!

Yep, that’s a see through shirt right there lol

Merry Christmas Eve, if you celebrate it. If not, happy Sunday! Much love, Kate

Photo credit: Leo Amar

New Years Came Early this Year – Blondo Taras OTK Boots

I have to admit I don’t always do much for New Years. Both the hubs and I enjoy just chilling together more often than not. However, I always think about what I will/would wear and try to tackle the question of how to both look cute and stay warm.

Even in sunny San Diego it’s pretty much guaranteed that it will be cold on NYE and New Year Day. Well, cold for us. So that usually means one can get away with skipping a jacket if one is planning to be in and out of establishments, but there are some really chilly moments!

Of course, if you bring a jacket then you have to lug it with you or check it – if available. I think my new solution will be OTK boots! When we took these pics it was far from cold, but since I run pretty warm I think they’ll be just enough extra coverage to avoid frostbite (hehe).

I don’t go out very often as it all seems like such a pain to me. The crowds, waiting for service, the cost, no places to sit…(grumble grumble). But seeing as how I have so many pretty clothes I try to go out from time to time just to take them for a spin.

This dress is pretty old but you can still get some colors on Poshmark (Free People Embellished Slip Dress) and this seems to be this year’s version. I’ve placed some additional Free People dresses that are sure to get the party started here, here, here, and here. I could Google “Free People sequin dresses” all day every day!

I also really enjoy “rediscovering” things in my closet that I haven’t worn much (if at all) and creating new looks with accessories. I tried this dress with my Free People seamless romper underneath instead of the seamless mini slip shown here and I really liked it. It gives it an extra little edge seeing the short shorts underneath. I also like it with a blush or black slip underneath.

I searched for the perfect pair of over the knee boots for a while before I found these beauties. They are awesome!! So many of the OTK boots out there are cute but I wanted a pair that would be at least somewhat comfortable. These SO are due to the chunkier heel. They are 3.5″, but feel lower. I like that the pointy toe keeps them in the sexy and flattering category.

My favorite part is that they’re waterproof! What a genius idea. In SD we only get a few really cold days and many of them are when it rains so this was a big reason I bought them. Now I can stay warm and not worry at all about ruining them, like I would with suede or leather boots.

I am still really loving my Lipsense lipstick that I got from my Insta friend @kissablesense. Being a lazy-ish gal it’s so perfect for me. No need to reapply! I already have the Dark Pink and Strawberry Shortcake (the one I’m currently wearing), but I’ll definitely be getting a nude color for those days that I don’t want to go quite as bold. I’m thinking Roseberry, but it’s really hard to say for sure without seeing the color in person.

These sunnies (use coupon code: NewShades for 10% off) seemed like the perfect complement to my dress. The pink reflective lenses are just fun and a cat eye is flattering on everyone!

This bag’s fun multi-colored tassel also helped it go really well with this look. Sadly this particular version is no longer available, but this one is very similar and would go with just about everything.

What do you do to fete the new year?

Party on people! Much love, Kate

Photo credit: Leo Amar